William Blake knew it all along. Some things never change. Photo Credit: Wikipedia

OK, I did get in a plug for Valentine’s Day earlier this week, but really now, can too many hints be dropped, Dear Valentine?  I thought not.

Gift giving on Valentine’s Day can be dangerous business when it comes to romance and roses, but I’ll get to that in a minute.

First a few thoughts on Valentine’s Day Gift Giving.  It’s a well-known fact that most men give the  gifts they would like to receive on this auspicious occasion…and who can blame them.  Gossamer clad passionate dreams hover in the mind like sugarplum fairies waiting to dance.

Yeah, that’s a little flowery, but this is a family friendly venue.  You get the gist.  Daydreaming of love is is no crime, though.  It seems like just the right fit  for most anyone, depending on how it comes down.  Sometimes Mars Men do it differently than we would on Venus, though.

Now don’t get me wrong, there nothing inherently deficient  in “Howdy, honey.  Here’s some scanty lingerie. Gonna try it on now?”  This is made all the more appealing when  accompanied by a good swift, masculine kick to the bedroom door.

Now, you know I’m just joking with you, guys.  Still, hurried romance does not hold a candle to the lingering way of love.

I’m speaking of savoring a dozen (or more) classic long stem roses, fine chocolate and a dinner for two.  Then come the kisses and cuddles.  Passion has been known to fully blossom, as it were, in such august presence–or should I say, presents?  That is, of course, this female’s perspective.

Naturally, we ladies tend to give our men what we would want, too, like jewelry for example. (another little hint)  More than one lady has given her Valentine a box of chocolates.  Sorry ‘bout that.  Some men have even gotten roses.  Poor darlings, ha!  Ah, but that’s what we love…roses!

Roses are so beautiful.  In fact, roses are the favorite flower in the United States of America.  Yes, you are right.  The American Beauty Rose is the national flower.  Such is our love affair.

Roses have been around forever, but they have only recently come to such uniform visual quality.  Perfectly formed petals, fantastic coloring, tight buds and sturdy stems are the highlights of horticultural efforts for the past hundred years.  The fragrance is mostly gone now in these artificially perfect specimens, and the buds often bend their heads in sorrow long before they bloom, but these prize beauties are still wondrous to behold when fresh and new.

Commercial rose growing has now become a huge international industry supported by vigorous toxic chemical intervention to keep up the necessary productivity.  The ever increasing demand for roses has inspired growers to seek new places to (pollute and) cultivate roses to placate our rose passions.  Now, roses are plentiful and inexpensive, even in wintertime, because they are grown in South America.  As you know, it’s summer down there at the moment.

Beauty sure has its price. Because they are so prone to disease, commercial and home grown roses are usually sprayed, dusted and doused with fungicide and insecticide cocktails to fight off the foul destroyers.  Good for roses, bad for us.  Added to that,  the synthetic fertilizers most rose growers use, in the home or in the greenhouse, contribute to polluting the streams and causing eutrophication. The contamination continues by osmosis.  Whatever leaches into  vase water, we dump down the sink and right into our drinking water supply.

I used to just love pressing roses to my face,  in hopes of a slight hint of old fashioned rose fragrance.  Alas, no more.  It’s downright dangerous.  I prefer not to try to kill myself with flower power.  Our poor livers are already overloaded with environmental toxins every day.  It’s a crying shame to add roses to the list of ‘don’t touch me,’ because I LOVE ROSES!

I really hate being the party pooper with all this poison talk.  But don’t blame me, William Blake started the whole thing with his talk of  roses, worms and the consequences. Some things never change.  Let’s just say from an environmental standpoint, we can do better than to buy that inexpensive rose bouquet at the grocery store, florist, or street vendor for our loved ones, and we can be more responsible in growing roses for our home gardens.

Yes, there are some bright spots growing ever more visible on the horizon for the rose grower and the rose receiver, and not a moment too soon.  Organic roses and sustainably grown roses are now commercially available in plants for the garden and bouquets for the beloved.  You can indulge in healthy rose passion responsibly.

You can buy  and grow garden roses that do not need chemicals to thrive.  These hardy beauties come in a range of colors and varieties.  There are China roses, tea roses, floribundas and more. Different varieties need different climates, but there are roses for Zone 4 to Zone 10 that are low maintenance, easy to grow and sustainable.  Earth Kind® roses and Buck Roses identified by  Texas A & M University and Iowa State University respectively, are available at fine garden centers and online. If you don’t mind a little kudo, I want to send a shout out to Chamblee Rose Nursery and the Antique Rose Emporium . These two are  nurseries that  have been pioneers growing in the sustainable rose.  You won’t find better roses for sustainability than with these two fine companies     For more information check out our articles on Earth Kind® Roses and Sustainable Roses.

For those special occasions you can now buy an Organic Bouquet which carries not one hint of danger, except perhaps from a thorn.

An Organic Bouquet has all the beauty and none of the chemicals of traditional commercially grown roses.  Since rose growing is so expensive anyway, and organic rose growing is not more costly, you can buy bouquets of organic roses for about the same as you would pay in any decent flower shop.  When it comes to shopping for cut roses, this one is a no brainer!

As Albert Einstein quipped, “A little knowledge is a dangerous thing.  So is a lot.”  (I wonder if he thought that up right after discovering the laws of relativity.)  At any rate, whether you knew a little or a lot about roses before, you can now claim to have added to your information base some rose history, rose poetry, knowledge of the long term effects of all these romantic rose remembrances, and the available alternatives.

Oh, I didn’t forget about Blake.   For our poetry lovers,  here is what William Blake shared in his Songs of Experience as the 39th plate.

The Sick Rose

O Rose thou art sick.
The invisible worm,
That flies in the night
In the howling storm:

Has found out thy bed
Of crimson joy:

And his dark secret love
Does thy life destroy.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

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Whew, is there any end to the information about fire ants?

I have written 5 articles about fire ants now and I haven’t even begun to tell everything there is to know. I give up for a while.  It’s time to think about Valentine’s Day.

For the guys, I’ll just say this is the most important holiday, equal only to “The Birthday” in the life of a romance.  It’s love’s perfect time for posies, presents, proposals… and getaways. I had to reflect back on one of my own Valentine’s getaways when I was doing all this research, because that was my first introduction to just what a disaster it can be to encounter the ferocious red imported fire ant.

Now how, exactly, do romance and fire ants even get put in the same sentence?  Being from the DC area, we had never heard of fire ants, much less associate them with the child-free romantic retreat we had planned.  I certainly would never have thought to include them in any of my reveries.  What a mistake.   Our ideal vacation was ruined.  Fire ants entered unbidden and spoiled a long awaited and perfectly planned (or so we thought) romantic getaway.

Anyone who has visited Sanibel Island in Florida would attest that it is a perfect setting for a romantic rendezvous.  The resort was fantastic, the pristine, shell strewn beaches were almost deserted and the long weekend stretched out before us like a gauzy dream waiting to happen.

Oh, it happened all right, but it turned out to be the nightmare vacation from hell.

Things started off well enough. We were lavishly welcomed at our accommodations. We had a lovely dinner by candlelight overlooking the ocean. We took the de riguer walk on the beach afterward. That night we were serenaded by the waves and woke up ready for adventure.

It was a bright morning with not a cloud in the sky. Bike riding around the island to get our sightseeing in was on the agenda. So, there we were tooling around and having a great look-see.  It was shaping up to be such lovely day!  Hot but totally lovely.

Luckily for me, I like hot weather rather than cold, but around midday my (ex)husband’s internal temperature was rising and he had a pretty good case of sunburn. His face was tomato red, so we stopped for some cool water and a rest.

Spying a pristine bed of pine straw mulch around a shady palm tree, the man decides to sit there and catch the breezes while I look at kitch for kids. Well, like I said we were totally unaware of the South’s fire ant problems. He no sooner gets settled under that tree before he is swarmed with red imported fire ants.  I heard a howl then saw him swatting away, while he was trying to strip off his shirt.

Big mistake. He now had a weapon to beat fire ants off his legs, but they migrated under his shorts and to his chest and neck.  I don’t know how long that attack lasted, but it felt like an eternity, and I was only an onlooker.  Ouch.  Although it was years later that I experienced my own encounter with fire ants, just watching him suffer was awful.

It was horrible. He sustained so many bites that he was in total agony. Between the fire ant venom and the sunburn there was no comfort or rest. That was the end of the fun and the beginning of weekend misery I will never forget.

No kisses. No hugs. No laughter. For the duration it was just cold baths, grumpy fights and first aid. Such a waste of a holiday vacation.  Had we only known about fire ants, we could have avoided the whole thing.

Fire ants are found in more places all the time and many of them are fabulous vacation spots. We think about getting shots when traveling abroad, but who thinks about outdoor enemies in our own country?  Many Northern clime dwellers are unaware of the dangers of fire ants when traveling to the South.  Fire ants are never discussed in the travel brochures.  The state travel bureaus don’t even warn about fire ants.  How are we supposed to know?

Unfortunately, ignorance is no excuse– in the law and in fire ant behavior.  Fire ants are mean, have no natural enemies here and they hide in places you might never think to look.  Despite the best efforts of landscape professionals and scientists, fire ants still find ways to worm their way into paradise.

Don’t let this happen to you. You spent all that time planning the perfect trip. Now, spend a few moments and check out our articles on red imported fire ants to save yourself a nasty surprise. Familiarize yourself with where fire ants are found and what to look for. Be forewarned and be forearmed. You will be glad you did.

I hope you have a truly romantic Valentine’s Day. May it be full of love–and free of fire ants!

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We are working hard to prepare for an “official” launch of Landscape & Garden Today.  Needless to say, there seems to be more work than time, but it’s fun to see LGT take shape.  Here’s crossing fingers it will be picture perfect in the next few weeks, but Christmas is always coming, or so mother used to say.  Check back frequently to see how we are coming along.  We definitely would love comments, feedback, or any other sharing.   As our community grows, you will have an opportunity to communicate with like minded folk who are committed to going green from around the world.

Garden Centers have great deals this time of year.

In the meantime Fall has been happening all around.  It happens to be my personal favorite season, followed closely by spring.  The leaves are near peak here and that means soon they will be on the ground.   Instead of sending them to the landfill, or burning them (oh, no!) a great way to fertilize your lawn is to run over the leaves with a lawn mower.  They will naturally compost, providing nutrients all winter long, and you don’t have to rake as many.  Depending on the number of trees, you still may have to rake up leaves.  Lucky you…save those leaves.   If you wait until the leaves are almost dry, you can either shred them or just put the pile near the compost area to add as “brown matter” to sandwich between green material such as yard scraps and vegetable peelings.   Your compost pile will love you.  You will be amply rewarded when rich brown compost greets you at the bottom of the bin.

It’s also a great time to check your local nursery center for some great buys.  Bulbs, shrubs and trees are all great fall plantings, and by now many are on sale.  Look for native varieties to go green!  Also, remember to keep them watered through the winter if it’s dry to prevent wind burn.

We look forward to blogging with you again soon.  Enjoy your Autumn.

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